A good friend of mine once asked me whether I was deprived of games and toys during my childhood.
I said no but on the contrary, I did play a lot of games and toys in my motherhood. After I had become a mother, I often enjoyed playing games, painting and making handicrafts with my two children - a son and a daughter. I used cardboard papers to make tanks, and blankets and chairs to set up tents or houses. In fact I learned a lot more of children's books after I had my children. In the 1970s I started to appreciate books written by authors like Roald Dahl, Enid Blyton, Hans Christian Anderson, etc.
I like the comic character Tintin who was very amusing. Barbie was not born yet, and there was only Sindy in the market. Barbie gradually took over Cindy in the years to come. I was never a fan of Barbie. It might be because of its glamorous style and it carried some kind of vanity. I used to play GI Joe with my son. My son's first electronic game was called 'Merlin' and in fact it was only a naughts and crosses game.
My grandmother and mother loved Cantonese opera. They used to listen to the radio whenever there was a live broadcast of a Cantonese opera show. My father did not appreciate the Chinese opera at all and said that the songs sounded like the noise of killing a chicken. My mother used to buy live chicken and asked me to help her to kill it in a halal way. She usually asked me to hold the chicken upside down by the feet and she cut thethroat in one go with a knife so that blood flowed down into the basin immediately. While she was cutting it, she would say a few Arabic words. That's how my father knew about the sound of killing a chicken.